How to Disciple Your Cell
Group Members Into Leaders
The benefits and features of the
Your Equipping Journey™ resources
and TOUCH® Weekend Retreats.
by Randall Neighbour
THE SCRIPTURAL BASIS
1 John 2:12-14 describes three levels of
maturity for the believer: children, young men, and fathers. The
"children" are immature believers. They know the Father but
are not far along on the journey. At this first stage, the equipping
journey brings new believers into an understanding of what it means to
live in the kingdom of God and raises their awareness of Satan's
presence and motives on earth.
The second stage on the journey is that
of "young men." When believers have overcome the evil one,
they will have won the battle over satanic strongholds and possess the
Living Word within them. The equipping system takes each believer
through a mentor-led learning process and an encounter experience,
providing the freedom to walk in Spirit and Truth.
The third stage refers to
"fathers." By virtue of the name, spiritual fathers have sired
children and have a deep knowledge of God. Your Equipping Journey™
trains believers to reach the lost through relational evangelism and to
mentor these new believers through the journey they have already
begun.This equipping system will move group members through all three
levels of maturity and create a growing number of discipled leadership
candidates for your groups.
HIKING UP A MOUNTAIN
Your Equipping Journey is like a small but
challenging mountain with a hiking path leading to four camps. Each camp
supplies hikers with the tools they will need for the next part of their
journey.
The Camps
The camps will be manned by staff members
and mature volunteer leaders in your church. Any cell member who hikes
up the discipleship trail will visit the camp, learn about the path
ahead and pick up tools that will make the next part of the journey
successful.
The camps are as follows, in order of
use:
1) Spiritual Formation Weekend (Children)
2) Encounter God Retreat (Young Men)
3) Touching Hearts Weekend (Fathers)
4) Cell Leader Intern Retreat (Fathers)
The Path
The paths between the camps provide cell
group members with daily growth guides and mentoring. Each day, members
will spend five to ten minutes reading, answering short questions and
praying about various topics: sin, satanic strongholds, God, Christ's
love, the importance of community and fellowship, ministering to others
and receiving ministry, relational evangelism, taking a leadership role
and more.
The hiking tools are as follows:
1) Beginning The Journey - 4 weeks
2) The Arrival Kit - 11 weeks
3a) Touching Hearts - 5 weeks
3b) Mentoring Another Christian - Individual time invested in reading
4) Cell Group Leader Training - 8 weeks
These printed resources have been written
carefully with a form of programmed learning designed to
"overlap" important subject matter. As a set they are very
powerful because they repeatedly expose key truths that your members
will apply to their own lives and go on to use in ministry. The first
three resources listed have been designed with daily growth guides. Cell
group members will spend time in prayer and in the Word each day, as
well as read two or three pages found in the growth guides. Some pages
ask questions, while others suggest discussing the content with his or
her mentor.
How does mentoring work?
Certain parts of the discipleship path are
hard to climb. A mentor who is ahead on the path or has walked the path
before can be a great source of support and encouragement. Cell leaders
should assign a mentor to every new believer in their groups. The mentor
will usually be the person who reached the new believer for Christ or
has a strong friendship with the new believer. Mentors and protégés
should be of the same sex, however, so if a man leads a woman to Christ,
his wife or another woman in the cell should be asked to mentor the new
believer. If an incoming member has been a believer for many years, he
or she should select an accountability partner from the group with whom
to climb the mountain. The cell leader should make certain that this is
a good match. Once incoming members have completed their training and
reached a friend or family member for Christ, each one of them will
become a mentor and focus on discipling their own new believers.
Where does the path begin?
There are only two ways to start the hike
as a new believer or as an incoming cell member who has been a Christian
for awhile. Typically, both types of people will become regular parts of
a cell group before they begin the journey. If you already have
established cell groups, encourage every cell member to go through this
equipping system. For some, parts of the training will be very basic,
but everyone will learn something as they go through the process. If for
no other reason, all of your cell members should participate so that
they will be ready to mentor new believers through the process.
The First Camp - The Spiritual
Formation Weekend
When new believers or members join a cell
group, their cell leaders should invite them to attend the next Spiritual
Formation Weekend. This weekend is held at your church campus on a
Friday evening and the following Saturday, concluding in the afternoon.
With their mentors by their sides, they will:
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Share their life story through the
use of The Journey Guide for New Christians, if they have not
already done so. (Existing church members entering your cell group
ministry will use The Journey Guide for Growing Christians.)
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Learn about and be scheduled for
baptism, if necessary.
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Learn about your church’s history.
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Meet the pastoral staff and spouses.
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Be placed in or confirmed as members
of particular cell groups.
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Learn about their future at your
church and the equipping journey they will undertake. |
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At the conclusion of this weekend, each
participant is given a copy of the first discipleship tool, Beginning
The Journey. When handed, detailed instructions on its use and
benefits must also be offered. Also, schedule each participant for the
next camp, Encounter God. This way, everyone entering your cell
ministry will understand that there is a unified discipleship system in
your church and that everyone will be moving through the system
together.
The First Path - Beginning The Journey
Throughout the next five weeks, your cell
members will take part in weekly cell group meetings, deepen their
relationships with other believers between meetings and work through the
daily growth guides in Beginning The Journey.
Each week, your members will meet with
their mentors. As they become friends, each pair will pray, talk about
what they’re learning and discuss ways to introduce the mentor to the
protégé’s lost friends and family. Your members will also discuss
what they are learning through the daily growth guides. This includes
current habits and lifestyles that do not glorify God, lordship,
baptism, listening to God and experiencing freedom in Christ.
Beginning The Journey will bring
your cell members into a fresh understanding of kingdom living. When
this happens, they will see the need for spiritual warfare and
deliverance from satanic strongholds, which they will receive in the
next camp.
The Second Camp - The Encounter God
Weekend
The Encounter God Retreat is
ideally held at a hotel or retreat center within an hour’s drive of
your church’s facility. This retreat is designed to take your cell
members out of their home environment (away from children and other
distractions) to allow them to focus on deep spiritual matters. When
your cell members attend this retreat, they should be accompanied by
their mentors.
Throughout the retreat, your cell members
will learn how satan uses strongholds to keep believers from being
effective in ministry. Then, your cell members and mentors will complete
a supplied inventory card and confess their sins to one another after
some training and testimonies.
At the conclusion of this retreat,
present your cell members with the next "hiker's tool"
entitled The Arrival Kit. Each member should also sign up for the next
equipping event called The Touching Hearts Weekend.
The Second Path - The Arrival Kit
The Arrival Kit will take your cell
members through an eleven week hike, examining worldly values with which
they may struggle, such as spiritual warfare, a new life of servanthood,
an examination of attitudes, the power of prayer and the priesthood of
all believers. The wonderful thing about this part of the journey is
that when it's completed, your cell members will be victorious over
satan and ready to mentor new believers they have reached for Christ!
The Third Camp - The Touching
Hearts Weekend
When your cell members arrive at this
camp, they will have developed new "spiritual muscles" and
will be ready to learn about strategic, relational evangelism. The
Touching Hearts Weekend was specifically designed to teach people
how to reach the lost through cell group relationships. Your cell
members should attend this weekend with a partner with whom they have
been in a mentor/protégé or accountability relationship. The more
teams from the same cell group that participate in this weekend
together, the better!
On Friday night, a church staff member or a coach will
give a brief overview of mentoring. Testimonies and practical
information will follow. At the conclusion of the evening, your cell
members will be given a copy of Mentoring Another Christian for
reading on their own, at a later time.
On Saturday, the training for relational
evangelism begins. Each of the cell members attending will receive a
copy of Touching Hearts, which they will use as a workbook
throughout the day. After watching video clips in the morning, your cell
members will create a list of nonbelievers with whom they frequently
come into contact. Co-workers, neighbors, family members and friends
will fill these lists. Using this list, each pair will determine who is
most ready to hear the Gospel.
On Saturday afternoon, your cell members
will learn to share the Gospel message with a unique version of a bridge
illustration, called the "John 3:16 diagram." Using
their own changed-life as an example, each member will practice sharing
the Gospel. Now equipped with the right tools, your cell members will be
sent out to reach their world for Jesus!
The Third Path - Touching Hearts
The next five weeks will be very powerful
indeed. Your cell members will discover the power of Christian community
to reach the lost and come to understand God's purpose in their lives.
During this time, your cell groups will grow with new converts; the cell
members who have been mentored (or who have been paired up for
accountability) will be set apart to mentor the new children in Christ.
The five weeks of daily growth guides within Touching Hearts will
review the need to work as a team, the "John 3:16 diagram",
helping others find freedom from sin and allowing the Holy Spirit to
speak through them as they share the Good News.
In the last daily guides, your cell
members will be challenged to examine their motives and to follow
examples offered from the lives of Jesus and Paul. This will give your
cell members an in-depth understanding of the call on their lives and
change them forever!
The Fourth Camp - The Cell Leader Kick-off
Retreat from Cell Group Leader Training
As your cell members reach the lost and
begin to mentor them through the journey we’ve described here,
you’ll see mature, soul-winning leaders emerge.
You — along with your cell leaders —
will determine which mentors are ready for the challenge of leadership.
Through personal visits, cell meeting visits and your pastor-member
friendships, you’ll know whom to ask.
When you have determined who is ready for
the leadership challenge, extend a personal invitation. Each couple
should receive a personal phone call with follow-up card or letter to go
on an all-expenses paid retreat to a nice hotel or out-of-town
facility. Arrange off-site childcare for the Friday to Saturday
evening time through their cell group leader and fellow members. If
presented properly, your potential cell leaders will feel very special!
The Cell Leader Kick-off Retreat
is designed to bring information and inspiration surrounding cell
leadership. The Cell Group Leader Training Trainer's Guide
contains a weekend overview, scheduling information and eight weeks of
training with PowerPoint Presentations. This retreat should be described
as a peaceful break from the hectic pace of life, where there will be
time to fellowship and have fun on a Saturday. The main point of this
weekend is to thank your dedicated cell members for their hard work in
the cells and to share the vision for their next step of ministry as an
intern.
On Friday evening, pastoral staff members
will cast the vision of the church and share the role of the cell
leader. Testimonies by key cell leaders will help each person understand
that leadership is not a superhero role but one of simple servanthood.
Before the evening concludes, each couple will sign up to visit
privately with a staff pastor on Saturday.
Saturday morning, after a late breakfast,
your cell members will gather for more information about cell
leadership. After lunch, the afternoon is free, with the exception of
the individual, half hour appointments with the staff pastors. These
private interviews are the place where your cell members will see their
pastoral support and make a commitment to cell leadership. The
concluding session challenges couples to come forward if they sense
God's call to move into leadership immediately. The entire group should
gather around these people and share prayers of thanksgiving! Those who
accept the challenge should be given a Cell Group Leader Training
Participant's Guide and receive information on where and when the
training will follow.
On the Sunday following this retreat,
present all the members and spouses who have agreed to become leaders to
your church during your services. They will be brought to the front of
the church and set apart for leadership, receiving the blessing of the
congregation.
The Fourth Path - Cell Group Leader
Training
The top of the mountain is in view! Now
that you have a new group of budding leaders (interns), they’ll need
special pastoral attention, guidance, and lots of on-the-job training.
This hike can take a few months or half a year, depending on your
church’s leadership requirements. TOUCH recommends these basic
requirements:
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A life free from habitual sin.
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A fully-developed prayer life (alone,
with spouse and family, and with cell members).
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The earned respect of cell members
(from lots of servanthood).
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Faithful involvement in leadership
training and ongoing events.
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A strong desire to share Christ’s
love with anyone who will listen.
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A dogged determination to help fellow
cell members reach their friends for Christ. |
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If these basic values and disciplines are
present, then the person will make a solid cell leader. When they are
ready, your cell leaders should complete the Journey Guide for Cell
Group Leaders to ensure that they are ready.
Four Paths and Four Camps
Wow! The view is spectacular from up here,
don't you think? Just take a moment to imagine what it looks likeŠthrough
the use of our equipping system, you have moved your church members out
of the pews and into ministry! They've found freedom from strongholds,
discovered their purpose in life and are mentoring others. Today, your
groups are multiplying with new believers and an ever-increasing number
of cell leaders. Now that's a mountain top scene a pastor can look at
all day without getting bored!
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Frequently Asked Questions
WHY DOES IT WORK SO WELL?
The power of Dr. Neighbour’s system is that
the vision for a unified, cell-based discipleship track is mandated and
carried out by church leadership via the retreats and weekend events.
Everyone is hiking up the same mountain with the same tools.
When you adopt a uniform, church-wide
system of cell-based discipleship, its results can be monitored and
easily analyzed. When adaptation is required, changes are uniform,
increasing the success of your system.
Adopting a church-wide system also
removes pressure from your cell leaders, most of who do not have the
time and/or the giftings to personally disciple 12 to 15 persons into
strong leaders. A system like the one described above will provide your
cell leaders with the freedom they need to serve the sheep in your flock
and facilitate evangelistic events for their groups.
CAN I USE THE RESOURCES SEPARATELY?
The printed workbooks found in the Your
Equipping Journey™ line of resources can be used without the
retreats or weekends described here. The workbooks can also be
integrated with other materials. The weekends and retreats can also be
used separately.
The only exception is The Touching
Hearts Weekend and workbook. These two resources should be used
together because of the weekend information printed in the front of the
guidebook.
OUR CHURCH SCHEDULE IS SWAMPED. HOW
IMPORTANT ARE THE RETREATS AND WEEKENDS?
In the interest of your church’s success
with cell-based discipleship, we’d like to share our findings
concerning discipleship in those churches that struggle with cell
groups:
1) Churches who leave the discipleship
process up to the individual, the mentor or the cell leader, generated far
fewer qualified cell leaders than those church leaders who took a
systematic, corporate approach to discipleship.
2) Churches who promoted multiple or
optional discipleship tracks or for cell members had widely differing
success rates in producing leaders. This created numerous problems with
failing groups and damaged a blossoming cell ministry.
As you prayerfully plan an equipping
system for your local church, consider the benefits of using an
integrated set of “immersion” experiences, followed by carefully
designed discipleship resources that work well together.
You will be far more productive in your
journey if you begin rolling toward your destination with a tested
vehicle than if you attempt to design a set of wheels from scratch
before you experience the road ahead.
WHAT ABOUT MY BUDGET CONSTRAINTS?
From our findings, members are usually happy
to pay for the weekends/retreats upon arrival at the event; payment
helps them take ownership of the material and gives them a vested
interest in applying the teaching to their lives. With the small cost of
the printed resources added to the overhead of each weekend, you will
find that the expenses of an integrated equipping system as described
here is not taxing on your church budget.
The Cell Leader Intern Weekend must
be seen as an investment into your church’s future. As you begin a
cell ministry, the cost will not be great because only experienced cell
members will be invited to this weekend. As you grow, your cell-based
financial resources will also grow. Recent statistics show that cell
members tithe their time and finances far more faithfully than the
typical traditional church member!
WHERE CAN I PURCHASE “THE SPIRITUAL
FORMATION WEEKEND”?
The Spiritual Formation Weekend is a
custom-designed event that you must personally create and revise as
needed. The basic components and outcomes have been posted on our web
site and are available to view online. Check out www.touchaustralia.org
and click on the “Presentations” link and you will find “Spiritual
Formation Guidelines.” Take these guidelines and use them to create
your own, unique weekend event.
WHERE CAN I GET THE RESOURCES YOU’VE
DISCUSSED?
Our office in Rockhampton carries the
resources we’ve introduced in this guide. You may order them by
phoning (07) 4926-2966.
WHAT IF I HAVE MORE QUESTIONS?
We’re here for you! Just call our office and
one of our cell group experts will be willing to answer any of your
questions and direct you to the proper training and resources available
for cell group ministry.
For further background for equipping cell
members for ministry, I’d like to close with a recommendation that you
read Leadership Explosion by Joel Comiskey. This book will help
lay a foundation for understanding mentoring relationships and will
explain the principles of an effective equipping system. It clearly
illustrates how various churches around the world have developed
equipping and leadership training systems that work. |